Do you ever sit down and think about the friends you have in your life? Do you ever ask yourself how you guys became friends? A lot of people have the same friends from their childhood and if you ask me those are the best of friends to have because you have grown up together and know everything about each other. That is what i call a true and close friendship. The later you make friends in life doesn't have the same built relationship that you would have from a childhood friend. Even if you grow a part when you get older, it will most likely be the longest friendship that you have had. What about the friends you make that you realize what a mistake it was to become friends with them, you know the gold digger ones, the ones that are only your friends just based on what you can do for them and how you can help them out and they always take advantage of your friendship, without feeling an ounce of regret? Those make me sick! What about friends that you make that get to close to your boyfriend/girlfriend? How do you deal with that? Do you tell them to drop dead and get the hell out, because they are overstepping their boundaries? Or do you tell yourself ohhhh its nothing, they are just friends. Well just be careful about how close you let your friends be with your boyfriends or girlfriends. What about friends at work? they are always fun, because you can have a comfortable environment with them and do after work activities like go out to happy hours or dinner together. Those are fun. What about those friends that are always there for you, always try to help you out without asking for anything in return, because they have that pure of a personality. Then there are those friends that always try to stand out more than you, anything you have done or experienced in your life they have to done it, or at least say they have done it, ten times better. Don't you get tired of that? I would...So think about your friends and see which ones you would really consider to be a GOOD friend!
Monday, May 19, 2008
What type of friends do you have?
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I know exactly what you are talking about sweetie!! Recently Ive been checking my friends and the result was not very satisfying!!! When you are on top they all love you but when something happens to you and you need their support more than ever there is no one to find except maybe one or two... Its the ones who are there for you that you keep close and do the same for!!
You know that I love you and Im always here for you!! I will bake you a chocolat cake anytime you want me too!!! ;)
You have my number as well so just give me a call anytime you feel like it!!!!
Miss you alot...
Yeah, its certainly the case in life. As we mature and grow older, less opportunities present themselves to really get to know the people we call friends, a big part of that is personal financial hardship- aka- spinning your wheels towards that far off american dream. (At least it is that way for us)
Another part of this is because when you're young theres so much to do and so much time to do it, and ample opportunities to meet new people.
I'm truly blessed to be able to say that the friends I've come to know and respect are true friends, it was evidence enough when I was diagnosed with testicular cancer, they all seemed to be right there.
Keep rocking on you guys!
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